Picking the gender of the baby is a dream every parent harbors. Though many would-be parents say that they don’t mind whichever gender the baby is born in, they would have some preference in their mind. That is not to say that they don’t like the other gender, but there is a preference each set of parents have.

And one of the best pieces of advice when it comes to choosing a gender is the ‘Pick the gender of your baby’ e-book by Ashley Spencer. Ashley is a proud mother of three boys and a girl, and before trying for the baby girl, she read through everything there was to learn on the topic. In fact, apart from the different things she could read up on, she and her husband also attended a two day seminar on the topic!! All the information gathered from these different sources laid the foundation for Ashley’s own system and thus was born ‘Pick the gender of your baby’.

The beauty of the system is that all the different tips recommended by Ashley are extremely simple to understand and implement, and they have an aggregate success rate of about 95% from the 12,000 odd couples who’ve used the system and there are a range of testimonials to prove that.

What makes the system even more wonderful is that a few certified doctors have given testimony to the different pieces of advice Ashley gives in her system. From timing to pH levels to diet adjustments, specific positions, and much more; the system covers them all and is pretty comprehensive in covering the different aspects of picking the gender of your baby.

What Ashley does best is to merge science with layman language so that all of us can understand it with aplomb. If you are looking to pick the gender of your baby, this is one system you can’t afford to miss!

Before we get started on this one, we should tell you that all the different ways advocated across the world which promise that they will help in conceiving a boy, are all natural and have all been passed down the ages. There is almost no medication in them and if you come across a system in which some quack says that using medication X will help you conceive a boy, run from there! There’s nothing like that which has been invented to date!

However, like we said, there are millions of people who bear testimony to the fact that there are ways in which one can conceive a boy with a good degree of accuracy. One such tip is to conceive on the day of ovulation. Studies show that the sperm cells which are responsible to conceive a boy are short lived and their average life span is just a day or so. There are greater chances of having a boy if the conceiving happens immediately on the day of ovulation so that the sperm cells don’t go waste.

Another method that has worked for thousands of people is that of deep penetration. It is said that the sperm cells hitting the base of the cervix have more chances of conceiving a boy. There is no right position for this, but in whichever position the couple is comfortable, ejaculating close to or right on the cervix will have more chances to conceive a boy.

These are the most popular of the methods which people promote and use when they wish to conceive a baby boy. However, there are no guarantees that these will work for everyone, as there are too many factors which this is dependant on. Read up some more on the topic and you will have a fair idea of what works and what doesn’t.

According to tens of thousands of people who’ve used a myriad range of methods that claimed to help conceive a boy or a girl, yes! Gender selection is quite possible.

However, the medical community is not entirely convinced, but that does not deter the millions of people who vouch by the methods and try them out without fail. Over the generations, wise old people have identified various ways in which boys and girls can be conceived without any additional medication or other external influences on the birthing process.

Gender selection involves a few very simple tips that have come down the generations – ranging from the position of having sex to the day on which the conception needs to happen in order to increase the chances of a particular gender. Now, note that we said ‘increase the chances’ and not assure about a gender. It is always an increase in the probability of gender selection, as the complete process of having a boy or girl will depend on a wide range of factors – and most of them are not in our control. The things which are in our control have already been identified and those are what people can work on.

Like with everything else, in gender selection also there are a lot of people who claim to get miraculous benefits out of some quack process, and you would do well to stay well away from them all. A simple way of identifying those will be to see if they ask you to take some medication or any other organic stuff to enhance the gender selection process – they normally don’t work! Also, when you are asked to make massive changes in your lifestyle, understand that they might be wrong.

Gender selection processes are best asserted by your doctor and unless you get an approval, don’t use anything radical.